Why don’t men look at me?
Why do all my relationships fail? Or, why did I never have a
boyfriend?
Typical questions of single
women, who question themselves again and again why their love destiny seems to turn its back on them continuously …
If you feel identified with that situation, let me tell you
something: it is not bad luck that makes you be alone, but it is yourself.
There are several habits, feelings, thoughts or situations
that keep you single.
Discover what is happening to you to find a solution and
finally, welcome love.
Habits That Keep You Single
1. Generalizing.
Do you think that all men are the same? If so, you must
change your mind.
This concept that all men are womanizers, liars, unfaithful
or shallow prevents you from relying on the opposite sex and therefore, keep
you single.
In addition, it is clear that this is not the case. Do not
let a bad past experience stop you from knowing good people, there are many!
2. Being addicted to
social networks.
When you just meet a man, you check his Facebook profile
from head to toe … And yes, that way, you’ll always find something that will
make you doubt (a comment, a photo, whatever) and much more if you know him
little.
The worst thing is that you know very well that you do not
have to believe in everything that appears on Facebook: Appearances deceive.
Allow yourself to know him personally, as it should be,
before judging him.
3. Being spiteful.
Do you still hold a grudge against your boyfriend with whom
you finished years ago?
Resentment, pain, and resentment of a love failure stagnates us in the past and therefore, no chance to
open ourselves to love.
You have to look ahead and leave everything bad behind: the
pain of a bad experience also plays against by the fear side.
We feel panic that this failure is repeated and that is why
we do not encourage ourselves to meet someone.
We have to overcome it!
4. Not letting go the
wrong man.
Love can be
present in the life of a single
woman, of course.
The trouble is that most of the time that love is not reciprocated and here is
the problem; while out there, there may be several good candidates hanging
around, you do not even look at them because you insist on the same one.
Are you stagnant in a relationship of “friends with
benefits”?
Stop wasting time with the wrong man, as unconsciously you
do not allow the right one to appear.
5. “The syndrome of
the princess”.
Do you still believe in the blue princes? And in fairy tales
where everything is perfect?
Come on!
Do not wait for the prince to go pick you up on his horse
because you will remain alone.
Fall to the real world: not everything is rosy, sometimes
things cost and you have to fight for what you want.
In addition, the perfect man does not exist: you have to
maintain realistic expectations.
6. Give too much,
very soon.
You take him to your house, you cook for him, you tell him
all your intimacies, you introduce him to your family and your friends.
Everything too fast, don’t you think?
Keep in mind that this scares men and drives them away: you
must go step by step so that the relationship grows.
7. Obsessing.
When will I meet someone? Why am I still single?
Your worries about being alone may be the main obstacle to
just being alone.
Free yourself from that pressure, that love comes when you least expect it;).
It’s a worn phrase, but true.
Habits That Keep You Single
What else do you think can influence bad luck in love?
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